Boy or Girl?

I posted this reflection while announcing “our heartbeat” gender on Instagram in two parts. Read till the end to know the answer 😉


In my perspective, images of raising a son is like preparing a responsible leader, while taking care a daughter is more focusing on how to nurture an educator for the next generation after her. Even though I often hear that girl is easier to manage rather than a boy, IMHO… NEITHER OF BOTH is better. Double standard or virtue in having boy VS girl are no longer existing nowadays. I personally will let my son to cry if he needs and please my daughter to go out at night with clear boundaries. The most important thing, in which I still keep learning too, is parenting them with unlimited love no matter what. Because Allah always does the same to us 😭 Continue reading